7 Yr S/daughter Is Sweet To Every Ones Face, But When She Is Around Me (step Mom Or MY Family) She's Rude She Has Told Her Dad She Likes To Make Us Fight To Get What She Wants. She Is Taking On Her Mothers Bad Ideas S/daughter Only Sees Her Every 4 M?
Ths.Her Dad feels bad for her.I think she wishes a little dose of reality, the world doesn't revolve around her.She steals toys from my 3 yr old, ram fingers in doors, write me hate notes I bring up to date her to mind her manners I hoped my mom could help but if she does something i told her not to my mo doesn't want me to talk to s/d i want s/d to know im not a dummy, and she needs to fairly. Im about to le
Answer:
Her dad needs to do a reality check. The dad know she does it to make him fight - but he should make it clear the individual one he is going to get angry with if she does it again is HER. She will naturally be premonition bad about having a step mum and will assessment boundaries but he needs to be firm with her. When she is being obedient you should praise her for being good so positive behaviour is rewarded and far as possible save calm when she is naughty, get down to her even explain what she has done wrong and make a suitable punishment.
If dad doesn't sort it she will make everyone's energy a misery - including her own.
Good luck.
Comment: If she has told him this and he still does nothing or says nought, the child is running his life....
Answer: If this 7yrs old comes into your household to visit. She have need of to be seat and you and your husband. Need to tell her its only two adults within this house. If she can't respect you as a step-mom, she willn't be coming back to visit. Until she learn to have a chat to you better. I will also have a talk with her mom nearly the way her daughter treats you. Keep you in prayers.
Oh sweetie you and I in duplicate boat almost....I have two stepdaughters and the oldest and I butt heads ALL the time it is very rough I know but you involve to be stern with her and if he doesnt believe how she is rude buy yourself a digital voice recorder and get it on cassette make him listen to it he needs to be on your side my husband is with me no issue what if she acts out on me he does not interfere with the punishment I give her problem is shes green of me and has told her Dad that ...I know you could pull your hair out it is rough we are both matching kind of people to so it makes it harder to go and get along she has to respect you if she cant Im sorry she would not come to the house until she could treat you with respect you are the adult not her and she requests to learn if she acts up first time give her a advisory second time send her home she will eventually learn she has to respect you if she requests to come to her Fathers house and be there Im glad my husband sides with me and stands a strong ground with him and I amalgamated you need to do the same with your husband and stick together permit her see you to are as one not separated or fighting that will help a little....
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Her dad needs to do a reality check. The dad know she does it to make him fight - but he should make it clear the individual one he is going to get angry with if she does it again is HER. She will naturally be premonition bad about having a step mum and will assessment boundaries but he needs to be firm with her. When she is being obedient you should praise her for being good so positive behaviour is rewarded and far as possible save calm when she is naughty, get down to her even explain what she has done wrong and make a suitable punishment.
If dad doesn't sort it she will make everyone's energy a misery - including her own.
Good luck.
Comment: If she has told him this and he still does nothing or says nought, the child is running his life....
Answer: If this 7yrs old comes into your household to visit. She have need of to be seat and you and your husband. Need to tell her its only two adults within this house. If she can't respect you as a step-mom, she willn't be coming back to visit. Until she learn to have a chat to you better. I will also have a talk with her mom nearly the way her daughter treats you. Keep you in prayers.
Oh sweetie you and I in duplicate boat almost....I have two stepdaughters and the oldest and I butt heads ALL the time it is very rough I know but you involve to be stern with her and if he doesnt believe how she is rude buy yourself a digital voice recorder and get it on cassette make him listen to it he needs to be on your side my husband is with me no issue what if she acts out on me he does not interfere with the punishment I give her problem is shes green of me and has told her Dad that ...I know you could pull your hair out it is rough we are both matching kind of people to so it makes it harder to go and get along she has to respect you if she cant Im sorry she would not come to the house until she could treat you with respect you are the adult not her and she requests to learn if she acts up first time give her a advisory second time send her home she will eventually learn she has to respect you if she requests to come to her Fathers house and be there Im glad my husband sides with me and stands a strong ground with him and I amalgamated you need to do the same with your husband and stick together permit her see you to are as one not separated or fighting that will help a little....
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What Forms Of Discipline Really Work?
What methods of discipline really work? Yes, your child should be disciplined. You have to teach the child from the start. In my view you should adopt a friendly bearing with your child. Of course, your child must have in his mind that he will gonna be punished...
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