Im 14 And Im Pregnant How Do I Tell My Father He Will Kill Me, But I Dont Want A Abortion :( What Do I Do ?
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This situation is tough, I know, Ive been there. I was not 14, I be 20, but everyone around me tried to make me have an abortion and the person I be most scared to tell was my father. Idk what open-handed of person your dad is, but your his baby, and this will hurt him. Hate to be negative, but it will. It will hurt his pride to know you've have sex. My best piece of advice is have someone with you. A friend or someone to abet mediate. He will be upset at first, so give him some time. The topic will probably make him very discomfited throughout you pregnancy, but once that baby is born he wont be able to hekp but love it. Just stay strong and try and keep surrounded by communication with positive people. You will need them!
Comment: Not to burst your bubble Baxter but have sex earleir than that is like super comon. I know its bad and adjectives but you have to see the facts.
Answer: I sympathize with you and I understand your fears, This will be a rock-hard blow for your father because in his eyes you are his little girl and he was looking for great things from you. However you have made a huge mistake and I commend you on not wanting an abortion.
You necessitate to sit with your father and be honest to him it is hard but it will be better if he heard it from you. I support you and will pray that everything works out.
You can transport me a friend request so I will continue to give words of comfort and consolation and hope to you. Having a baby at this age is not natural and it is a huge responsibility. Do you intend to take care of the baby yourself, and what in the region of the father of the child.
While my heart goes out to you, this is the outcome of kids making adult decisions to own sex, before they are able to take on the responsibility of another life span. Enough preaching...now that you've made this grown up decision to have sex and you don't want to present up your child, continue to be a grown up and tell your father. Not that it will be easy by any mechanism, but your life has changed forever and if you're going to keep this tot, and I hope you do, it's time to grow up and continue handling GROWN UP situations in a GROWN UP way. Handle your business as tricky as it will be. Start like someone said, having a mediator near you. Tell your father that you know this is not something he will want to hear and that you love him. That you are keeping your baby and you plan to do everything possible to care for it within your power. Because surrounded by the end it's not about your dad it's a life that you enjoy inside of you. You have a lot of hard work ahead of you, but you're on a different bridle path now...so GROW UP FAST!
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